Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Why are women attracted to the worst men?

Ever wonder why beautiful, intelligent and seemly reasonable women are attracted to men that have heartbreak written all over them. Like Jennifer Aniston’s character in the new movie Loves Happens, always dating men with “expiration dates.”

A new book by South Florida author sheds light on this phenomenon of women attracted to unavailable men. Dawn Maslar M.S. says she has the key to healing painful relationship patterns in her new book The Broken Picker Fixer From heartbreak to Soulmate: Finding the Love You Desire in 12 Weeks or Less.

Dawn explains that many women have a “broken picker.” A broken picker is an attraction to men that are not right from them. Robin Norwood described this attraction in her classic book Women Who Love Too Much. She states “many women become obsessed with the wrong men - men who are emotionally unavailable, addicted to work, alcohol, or other women – men who cannot love them back.”


The book was created as a result of the author’s personal experiences. After many years of struggling with on-again off-again relationships, Dawn found herself at an emotional bottom. She had to come to grips with her own broken GPS (Guy Picking System). She learned that an attraction to men who treated you badly or are not emotionally available is an indication that a part of you needs to be healed. That no amount of changing your outside circumstances such as behaving differently, dressing differently, or picking different men was going to fix a broken picker. What was needed was an inside change.

He unique insists have created a fresh new approach to an age old problem. This is a must read for any women struggling with relationships.

The book is currently available on-line at Amazon books or at www.brokenpickerfixer.com